The performance of being unbothered.
It's a Boomer coping mechanism with some new branding.
“If they wanted to, they would.”
The phrase is everywhere — captions, comments, therapy language that escaped the confines of an office and started running loose online.
Profiling people never stopped. We just made it trendy.
Sorting people into types doesn’t help you understand them. All you’re doing is deciding—deciding quickly who gets the benefit of the doubt.
Being Good Isn’t Supposed to Make You Happy
But when did making ourselves happy become evidence that we’re making the right decision? Because those aren’t necessarily the same thing.
We Don't Change. We Get Rewritten
The self you swear is really you is just whichever draft you’re on now.
Why does “wife” trigger feminists?
Why do married women bother feminists so much? Why does raising children, cooking for a husband, building a happy home get under their skin so bad?
When control starts controlling you
The need to control every outcome can quietly destroy our happiness